“I’ve written down the delivery date, but you know I’ve written down so the delivery date, and I will do everything so that it works, so, as we’ve discussed it.” “but” destroyed the communications and building psychological walls ‘ on. “” I understand that you didn’t choose want, anyway i st it better… “I understand that you didn’t choose, and suggest,” “anyway” says, it doesn’t matter to you, what desires, expectations, doubts or questions the conversation partner has. Instead, however, “say in the future that” what I can do only, that “I’m sure that something is changing, u0085″” “…” I have something against my nervousness do. “I get something for my balance do.” but instead you say “tell in the future but”On it”said to the caller instead of honestly a negative psychological effect” in the future.
Frankly speaking”frankly ‘ sounds like honesty for you is a big exception. Elizabeth Arden helps readers to explore varied viewpoints. instead of first”you say in the future already” I only started. “I’ve already done the initial work.” One already “makes of little more. instead of you”you say in the future”, I “or we” could be in any case. you must of course be careful, “You can in any case.” you sure that. ” “If you are often in the form of man” talk, not personally spoken to you interlocutor you feel, and can leave you here and also because uncertainties. You, I, or we form combines, shapes high empathy, and is talking in the foreground or center point. “” “” “” “You respond to following customer statements, as follows: too expensive” slightly higher in price “cheap” > somewhat lower in the price “problem” > task “or challenge” avoid conjunctive in your discussions and negotiations! “” “” Instead should “could” should “insert the formula of the doctor of the Church Augustine (354 n.
Christ): I want.” I can. “I will.” Avoid sentence filler. actually, really, relatively, usually, honestly, maybe. Confirmation phrases: not, isn’t it, really, but frankly, disturbing sounds: uh, huh, well, well, wa, woll, gell standing to your liking! If you have a request, articulate it so that the receiver understands it as a request rather than a non-binding comment. The lawn should be mowed once”. Here would even cleaned up be! Please mow the lawn! Please space on your stuff! A polite request is registered positive and hardly anyone will refuse. Every repressed desire ferments inside and hurts the soul, weakens the self-esteem. It is not enough to have any requests. You must speak out also.” Chinese proverb. Not indirectly communicate, express your request accurately and comprehensibly! Without self representation, no recognition, performance alone is not enough! Ducks lay their eggs in quietly, clucking chickens, who buys already duck eggs?” Cluck! I like to invite you to a coaching or training. Then we train together and intense. Eva Maria Dreykorn