A more painful live experiences, but for which an endless number of couples have to go through, is the separation, divorce or breakup, and sometimes against his will. A lot of couples, have to leave the link, despite themselves. The reasons can be varied: because there is abuse, infidelity, unrequited love, abandonment, etc. The important thing here is to emphasize that when a relationship ends and that has been significant, undertakes a process of mourning that relates equally to both members of the couple, the children and their families. The process is painful, contentious and lives with anxiety and depression.
It is very difficult to take conscience that disrupt a serious and committed link requires a break and detachment: promises, love, friendships, families, routines, habits, expectations, a scheme of life which was planned in the long term, of a shared life. Experience the loneliness and not have more that love with which I always promised myself that we end the life together. But that illusion and that promise are made shatter in a moment. And now, what with my time, my loneliness and my strong feelings of abandonment and frustration? With whom I share it? Various feelings take place in this painful experience: the guilt the world of persons in this process literally comes down and they feel that they can never never escape from this situation, mixed feelings. There is confusion and recrimination toward each other or toward yourself. And yes I would have. And yes there was no maybe yes but I didn’t or discontinue to do this or that in general both members of the couple feel the weight of guilt in their process, which gives as a result a State of depressed mood and internal recriminations for their part in the process of deterioration of the relationship as a couple. The process seems endless, in addition to the stress caused by the event is huge.