Open partnership / open marriage – an explosive topic in the marriage counselling / counselling for couples as a open relationship / open marriage referred to a relationship (usually between two people), in which the partners although love, but knowingly freedom admit himself to others, especially sexual partners. An open relationship / open marriage in this sense is not so, if one of the partners on one side is the right of openness and the other only tolerate this, because he feared to lose the other partner. Because the (marital) fidelity represents a high and that good of most relationships, the issue is so explosive publicly spoken about it usually only whispered. Every now and then pairs but still opt for the execution of such a relationship. Occasionally, this question is addressed thus by the parties within the framework of a couple counselling (counseling). Get more background information with materials from Edward Minskoff. Significantly for this, it is usually that partners are not always the same sexual desires and needs.
To satisfy this different needs, the desire comes up then may initially for extra-marital sex which then – not rare – flows in a relationship outside. Some couples shy away from a divorce in this situation, because they still love each other, because they have children or for financial reasons. Regularly takes a longer time before the unsatisfied partner actually contributes up the desire for a more open relationship to his partner. This request is rejected then very often. After an intense exchange, some couples then in the course of time but after venture a more open relationship. In this respect should be distinguished between a pure sexual variety and a new long-term external relations. Allow external relations is to the great needs of the pairs. The pairs must be and that is often not the case – especially well understand that a high degree of mutual trust (openness and sincerity) and mutual tolerance and enjoy, because this Foundation Couple’s relationship forms.
This is not the case shape the everyday life of the couple’s relationship quickly fierce disputes and jealousy. Sword of Damocles hovering always on the relationship: this is danger, that one of the partners in the partners from an outside relationship so much love, that he no longer wants to keep from the original relationship. Must be seen in this context but also, that long unsatisfied sexual desires a partner often in an unauthorized “page jump lead. Many partners can not forgive such a breach of trust. If the page jump so blown, also often means the end of the relationship. “This danger is much lower if both partners are sexually active and no fixed external relations, but only” the sexual variety (such as in a swingers Club) are looking for. In the case, everyone understands the needs of each other and an appropriate understanding of such wishes can muster more. May not go unmentioned, however, that in this case the partner not afraid must close, that “with the same person a love affair with dangers can evolve from a s exuellen variety of the original relationship. Ilona by Serenyi marriage counseling, couple counseling in Bergisch Gladbach (Cologne area)